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Resources for Caregivers/Survivor

Adults play an important role in protecting the children in their lives. The books listed below exist to help parents, caregivers, and community members recognize the signs of abuse and neglect, keep children safe, understand online risks, and raise awareness about human trafficking in our communities. There are also books for adult survivors of abuse listed below. The listed books may be available at select local libraries.

Books for Caregivers

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What Your Child Needs to Know About Sex (And When)

This book offers advice for having positive conversations with children; beginning when they are young.

by Fred Kaeser

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How to Talk to Your Kids about Sex

This book offers advice on how to help children view their sexuality positively and how to have on-going conversations about sexuality, and relationships.

by Dr. John Chirban

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From Diapers to Dating

This book is a practical guide that offers parents a way to have on-going conversations about sexuality and dating. It focuses on pre-school to middle-school aged children.

by Debra Haffner

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The Sexwise Parent

This book offers information on protecting kids from bullying and abuse as well on advice on talking with kids about sexuality. Dr. Rosenzweig also provides information about how sex offenders manipulate boundaries, and ideas about keeping your children safe in different environments.

by Janet Rosenwieg

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Body Safety Education

Body Safety Education: A Parents’ Guide to Protecting Kids from Sexual Abuse

A step-by-step guide for parents and carers on how to protect children from sexual abuse through personal Body Safety Education. This guide contains simple, practical and age-appropriate ideas, as well as important information on how abusers groom and signs that a child may be being sexually abused.

by Jayneen Sanders

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The Well-Armored Child

The Well-Armored Child

An easy-to-read toolkit for parents when it comes to preventing childhood sexual abuse. This book gives parents the tools and strategies to understand how predators “groom” children, why many of our trusted institutions cover up abuse, and how to empower children without shame, fear, or inappropriate discussions of sex.

by Joelle Casteix

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Body Safety for Young Children

Body Safety for Young Children: Empowering Caring Adults

Empower children and prevent sexual abuse. In today’s world, it’s crucial that we equip our children with the tools they need to stay safe. Yet, many caring adults simply don’t know where to begin. Author Kimberly King takes the fear out of sexual-abuse prevention and makes it child-friendly and approachable, so you can confidently communicate with children and protect them from harm.

by Kimberly King

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Books about Body Safety and Boundaries

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Ages 1-5

Some Parts are Not for Sharing

Friendly fish and underwater scenes are used to give a simple message about private body parts and safe touch.

by Julie Le Federico

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Ages 3-7

My Body Belongs to Me

An interactive book which uses rhythm to engage the reader. Defines body boundaries, sexual abuse and emphasizes the importance of telling

by Jill Starishevsky

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Ages 5-10

I Said No!

Explains what private body parts are, good and bad touching, scenarios of what someone may say, what to do if you feel uncomfortable.

by Zach and Kimberly King

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Teach Your Dragon Body Safety

Age 3 to 7

Teach Your Dragon Body Safety

Written from a children’s point of view, this fun, cute, and entertaining illustrated book teaches kids about body safety, personal boundaries, inappropriate/appropriate touching, and how to respond if someone makes them feel unsafe/uncomfortable.

by Steve Herman

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Let’s Talk About Body Boundaries, Consent, and Respect: Teach Children about Body Ownership, Respect, Feelings, Choices, and Recognize Bullying Behaviors

Age 7 and up

Let’s Talk About Body Boundaries, Consent, and Respect

Teaching young children about body boundaries, both theirs and others, is crucial to a child's growing sense of self, their confidence and how they should expect to be treated by others. This book explores these concepts with children in a child-friendly and easily understood manner, providing familiar scenarios for children to engage with and discuss.

by Jayneen Sanders

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Some Secrets Should Never Be Kept

Age 4 to 7

Some Secrets Should Never Be Kept

Written to provide children with essential skills in self-protection and encourage them to always speak up through the story of Sir Alfred. His mother’s boss, Lord Henry, touches Sir Alfred inappropriately and tells him to keep it a secret or Sir Alfred’s mother will lose her job. Sir Alfred struggles with whether it is wrong to tell and if he would be believed. Includes a for parents with discussion questions.

by Jayneen Sanders

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The Trusted Trio

Age 3 to 12

The Trusted Trio

Helps children identify trusted and safe people they can talk to when they have a problem or about their emotions. Helps validate a child’s emotions while providing tools to safely express them. Helps children learn different coping skills to process their trauma.

by Rylee Tuggle

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Prevention is Possible

Age 4 to 7

Prevention is Possible: A Children’s Series on Body Safety and Sexual Abuse Prevention

This is a 6-book series includes 3 books for children and 3 parent guidebooks. They are presented in a cartoon format telling a simple story that teaches young children how to protect themselves from sexual abuse in a way that is easy for them to understand.

by Didi Zayas

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Good Pictures Bad Pictures

Ages 7-12

Good Pictures Bad Pictures

This is a read-aloud story about a mom and dad who explain what pornography is, why it’s dangerous, and how to reject it. It also includes discussion questions for parents at the end of each chapter and tips for parents/caregivers.

by Kristen A. Jenson

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Milly's Message

Age 5 to 10

Milly's Message: Protecting Kids Online

Milly loves to explore and learn. One day at school, someone shows Milly a movie on a phone that makes her feel sick. Milly was lucky to have a safe adult help her through this experience and now she teaches children that some adult behaviors can be harmful for kids to see. The book teaches young kids that coming across these images is not their fault and they can always seek help from an adult when they see things that are not meant for kids’ eyes.

by Liz Walker

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Do You Have a Secret?

Ages 2-6

Do You Have A Secret?

This book teaches children about privacy, personal safety, and healthy communication. It uses clear, age-appropriate language and expressive illustrations, to encourage children to talk openly about secrets, ease anxiety and shame, and help build a foundation for safe, confident decision-making.

by Jennifer Moore-Malinos

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No Means No!

Ages 2-9

No Means No!

by Jayneen Sanders

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My Body What I Say Goes by Jayneed Sanders

Ages 3-10

My Body What I Say Goes

by Jayneed Sanders

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Good Pictures Bad Pictures Jr by Kristen A Jensen

Ages 3-6

Good Pictures Bad Pictures Jr

by Kristen A Jensen

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Books for Adult Survivors of Abuse

The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel van der Kolk

The Body Keeps the Score

In this book, Dr. Bessel van der Kolk, one of the world’s foremost experts on trauma, uses recent scientific advances to show how trauma literally reshapes both body and brain, compromising sufferers’ capacities for pleasure, engagement, self-control, and trust. He explores innovative treatments—from neurofeedback and meditation to sports, drama, and yoga—that offer new paths to recovery by activating the brain’s natural neuroplasticity.

by Bessel van der Kolk

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It Didn’t Start with You

It Didn’t Start with You

This book explains how inherited family trauma from past generations impacts the health, emotions, and experiences of current generations and how. These emotional legacies are often hidden, encoded in everything from gene expression to everyday language, and they play a far greater role in our emotional and physical health than has ever before been understood.

by Mark Wolynn

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What Happened to You?: Conversations on Trauma, Resilience, and Healing

What Happened to You?: Conversations on Trauma, Resilience, and Healing

This book provides scientific and emotional insights into the behavioral patterns so many of us struggle to understand. In this book, Oprah Winfrey and renowned brain and trauma expert Dr. Bruce Perry focus on understanding people, behavior, and ourselves. It’s a subtle but profound shift in our approach to trauma, and it’s one that allows us to understand our pasts in order to clear a path to our future, opening the door to resilience and healing in a proven, powerful way.

by Bruce Perry

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Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents by Lindsay Gibson

Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents

In this book, clinical psychologist Lindsay Gibson exposes the destructive nature of parents who are emotionally immature or unavailable. You will see how these parents create a sense of neglect and discover ways to heal from the pain and confusion caused by your childhood. Finally, you’ll learn how to create positive, new relationships so you can build a better life.

by Lindsay Gibson

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Support organizations

When extra support is needed, these trusted organizations are here to help children, families, and our community.

Local Support Organizations

211

Referrals for local health and human services

Dial 211 (or 844-875-9211)

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Berrien County Health Department

Benton Harbor: 269-926-7121

Niles: 269-684-2800

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Riverwood Center - Benton Harbor

Mental Health services and programs

269-925-0585

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Riverwood Center - Niles

Mental health services and programs

269-684-4270

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Riverwood Center Children’s Mobile Crisis Line

24/7 access to speak with a mental health professional

269-934-0747 (9am-9pm) | 269-925-0585 (Outside of 9am-9pm)

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Lory’s Place

Grief healing and education center

269-983-2707

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Caring Connection Empowerment Center

Services for survivors of domestic and sexual violence

269-925-9500

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OutCenter Southwest Michigan

LGBTQ+ community support

269-934-5633

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Forensic Care and Advocacy Hotline

Sexual assault exams and treatment 24/7 at St. Joseph, Niles and Watervliet emergency rooms by Corewell Health’s team of certified SANE and advocates.

269-687-1880

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H.O.P.E Parent Resource Center

Young parent baby pantry and support

269-872-3172

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Legal Aid of Western MI

For assistance with legal matters

269-983-6363

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Corewell Health Center for Wellness

269-408-2258

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Intercare

Student Health Services: 269-605-1277

855-869-6900

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National/State Support Organizations

OK2SAY

24-hour resource empowers all members of the community to report safety concerns

1-855-565-2729

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Love is Respect

Relationship/dating abuse and violence education

1-866-488-7386

Text “Loveis” to 22522

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U.S. Center for Safesport

Fostering safe environments, free from abuse, for athletes

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We Ride Together

Make sports safer for youth and amateur athletes

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Athletes As Leaders

Encouraging female athletes to be leaders in their communities

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Futures Without Violence

Building a world where everyone can live with safety, health, and economic opportunity

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Link Up Lab

Creating a healthy future for young men online

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National Center for Missing and Exploited Children

Resources and education for the online exploitation of children.

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National Child Abuse Hotline

1-800-422-4453

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Rape, Assault, Abuse, and Incest National Network (RAINN)

National resource for reporting sexual abuse/assault

1-800-656-4673

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The Trevor Project

LGBTQ support

1-866-488-7386

Text “Start” to 678678

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National Human Trafficking Hotline

1-888-373-7888

Text “Help” to 233733

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Cybertipline

National report number for cyber bullying or inappropriate pictures of a child

1-800-843-5678

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SAMHSA National Helpline

Mental Health/Substance Abuse assistance

1-800-662-4357

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Crisis Text Line

Text “HOME” to 741741

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National Suicide Prevention Lifeline

Suicide prevention information and hotline

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Netsmartz

Cybersafety education for children and teens

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The National Child Traumatic Stress Network

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